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Who has the most power here Where should we start the sequence2025-07-01T12:28:41+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/05/30/social-media-in-the-church-and-its-abuse/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/square-road-to-ga-social-media.pngSquare-Road to GA-social media2025-05-30T19:51:53+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/09/18/leaving-the-church-spiritual-abuse-of-a-narcissistic-system/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/pexels-photo-750792.jpegchurch aisle photoPhoto by Irina Iriser on <a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/church-aisle-photo-750792/" rel="nofollow">Pexels.com</a>2025-03-17T22:23:29+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/02/08/spiritual-abuse-when-matthew-18-doesnt-work/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/images-1.jpegimages (1)2025-02-08T15:43:57+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/02/04/is-it-the-dawning-of-the-age-of-skepticism/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/two-kinds-of-people-dont-like-skeptics-abusive-people-and-comfortable-people.pngTwo kinds of people don’t like skeptics abusive people and comfortable people2025-02-04T16:16:33+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/01/23/who-deserves-mercy/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/who-deserves-the-mercy-of-the-church-2.pngWho deserves the mercy of The Church-22025-01-24T18:17:50+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/01/16/the-avalanche-has-come-spiritual-abuse-in-the-church/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/who-needs-tell-the-church.-what-does-that-mean-did-jesus-mean-tell-this-select-group-of-elders-who-happen-to-be-drinking-buddies-with-the-person-youre-accusing-or-does-it-mean-that-we-ne.pngWho needs Tell the church. What does that mean Did Jesus mean tell this select group of elders who happen to be drinking buddies with the person you're accusing or does it mean that we need to go2025-01-23T17:33:10+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/01/11/leaving-church-part-2-with-moses-flores/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/in-the-reformed-community-the-sign-of-regeneration-is-how-much-you-know.pngIn the reformed community the sign of regeneration is how much you know2025-01-11T17:51:12+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2025/01/06/leaving-church-part-1-sin-on-the-session-with-moses-flores/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/the-agenda-is-false-protection.pngthe agenda is false protectionhttps://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/image.pngimage2025-01-06T20:11:38+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/12/11/leaving-church-when-and-why-church-ministry-leaders-became-political/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/it-concerns-me-that-the-people-who-are-doing-that-the-loudest-and-with-the-most-vengeance-and-even-violent-speech-are-people-who-claim-to-be-christian-and-who-claim-to-be-part-of-faith-c.pngit concerns me that the people who are doing that the loudest and with the most vengeance and even violent speech are people who claim to be Christian and who claim to be part of faith communities2025-01-02T15:07:05+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/12/21/reflections-on-the-wall-of-silence-in-acna-and-in-the-pca/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/3.png3https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/2.png2https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/1.png12024-12-21T15:43:41+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/12/19/on-spiritual-abuse-part-1/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/copy-of-the-problem-with-this-system-is-it-demands-certainty-and-assumes-you-can-get-it.-a-system-that-demands-certainty-and-demands-control-is-100-going-to-lead-to-abuse-2.pngCopy of The problem with this system is it demands certainty and assumes you can get it. A system that demands certainty and demands control is 100% going to lead to abuse-22024-12-19T23:14:44+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/12/18/advent-series-4-why-women-a-reflection-on-the-women-in-jesus-story/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/women-of-jesus-genealogy-4.pngwomen of Jesus' genealogy-42024-12-18T16:36:34+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/12/13/leaving-church-when-preachers-perform/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/pexels-photo-713149.jpegpeople at theaterPhoto by Monica Silvestre on <a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/people-at-theater-713149/" rel="nofollow">Pexels.com</a>2024-12-13T16:02:32+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/12/08/advent-3-about-uriahs-wife/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/advent3-bathsheba.pngadvent3-bathsheba2024-12-13T15:27:57+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/11/25/listen-in-on-robs-take-on-wicked/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/is-she-the-wicked-one-i-mean-obviously-with-the-story-of-wicked-elphaba-is-not-the-one-whos-really-wicked-right-or-is-it-the-wizard-or-you-know-i-mean-certainly-you-could-say-that-the-ma.pngIs she the wicked one I mean obviously with the story of Wicked, Elphaba is not the one who’s really wicked, right Or is it the wizard Or, you know, I mean, certainly you could say that the main vhttps://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/wicked.jpgwicked2024-11-25T18:16:37+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/11/18/thoughts-on-forgiveness/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/forgivenesspost.pngforgivenesspost2024-11-18T18:21:21+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/11/05/leaving-church-on-suicide-and-hell/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/all-suicides-do-not-go-to-hell.-that-is-spiritually-oppressive-doctrine.-its-based-on-a-callous-unloving-hateful-god-and-thats-not-who-i-believe-god-is.-and-i-dont-believe-thats-the-work.png“All suicides do NOT go to hell. That is spiritually oppressive doctrine... it’s based on a callous, unloving, hateful God and that’s not who I believe God is. And I don’t believe that’s the work2024-11-14T20:27:20+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/about-us/2024-11-14T00:53:16+00:00weekly0.6https://askingforme.org/2024/12/01/advent-series-2-restoring-ruth/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/advent-on-ruth.pngadvent on ruth2024-11-13T19:05:14+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/11/12/special-advent-series-on-the-women-of-jesus-geneology/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/women-of-jesus-genealogy-3.pngwomen of Jesus' genealogy-32024-11-13T18:11:39+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/11/24/advent-series-1-tamar-the-more-righteous-than-judah/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/advent-on-tamar.pngadvent on Tamar2024-11-13T18:11:07+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/10/11/leaving-church-how-leaders-create-cultures-of-insecurity-and-fear/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/5.png5https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/4.png4https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/3.png3https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/2.png2https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/1.png12024-10-11T15:01:04+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/09/28/leaving-church-new-episode-making-new-wineskins/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/eugene-kim-quote.pngEugene Kim quote2024-09-28T15:25:11+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2023/09/16/part-2-scattered-sheep/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/scattered-sheep-4.webpscattered-sheep-4https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/scattered-sheep-3.jpgscattered-sheep-3https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/scattered-sheep-2.jpgscattered-sheep-22024-09-18T14:01:48+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/09/17/leaving-the-church-what-it-is-not/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/when-you-love-the-church.pngWhen you love the church2024-09-17T15:49:31+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/08/29/leaving-the-church-safe-spaces-only/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/volunteer.pngVOLUNTEER2024-08-29T17:07:41+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/08/21/leaving-the-church-series-defining-the-leave/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/leavingchurch-newseries.pngleavingchurch-newseries2024-08-21T20:16:28+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/08/16/church-planting-when-women-plant/2024-08-16T14:39:51+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/07/21/leaving-the-church-a-new-series-of-pondering/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/274_custom-62df2825fd57e6c68c4c7be9ba652338d0294604.jpg274_custom-62df2825fd57e6c68c4c7be9ba652338d0294604"Gardner" by Tom Hussey, photographer2024-08-15T17:37:11+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2024/08/07/leaving-the-church-on-leaving-the-denomination-with-steve-marusich/2024-08-15T17:36:46+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2023/06/27/new-url-same-place/2024-08-08T18:09:21+00:00monthlyhttps://askingforme.org/2023/09/30/part-4-a-sheep-scattering-system/https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/jews-in-the-synagogue-2.jpgjews-in-the-synagogue-2https://askingforme.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/pharisee-publican.jpeg21.68.4(19)Sir John Everett Millais (British, Southampton 1829–1896 London) The Pharisee and the Publican (The Parables of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ), 1864 British, Wood engraving; proof on India paper; image: 5 1/2 x 4 5/16 in. (13.9 x 10.9 cm) sheet: 7 5/16 x 6 1/16 in. 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